骑牛找马

"骑牛找马", this is the best word to describe a classmates of mine. We are taking same subject for this semester and teacher decided to give us group assignment where we will be group two in a group. My class, got a lady who personality is quite special until nobody dares to group with her (since past incidence that happened several times where anybody who group with her needed to do all the work alone). Let's call her Miss J. Here, appear another lady named Miss R who is considered quite close to me (i tot she was close to me and i'm just "tepuk tangan sebelah tak berbunyi" scare to group with Miss J since Miss J invited Miss R to group with her...

Scare that any mishap happened to herself (Ms. R), she quickly turned to me to ask me to group with her. At first, I reluctant to group with her since I wished to group with another classmate of mine. Since Miss R insisted me to group with her, I have to reject my classmate.

Immediately, Miss R told Miss J that I wanted to group with her...Oh Gosh!! Fine....Few days later, Miss R found out that another Chinese gal do not have group yet and she offered herself to group with her. Immediately, she "throw" me away and ask me to group back with my classmate...

Isn't that insulting? Does she meant that she wanted to group with me because she does not have suitable candidate yet? Once she found a suitable choice, then just throw me at the side? what does she think i am? in chinese word, "骑牛找马=riding on a cow to find horse" means she will change whenever there is suitable choice. <>

Worse still, this afternoon, intended to have lunch with them. When I asked them where are you going to have your lunch, she answered that she doesn't know and storm off with her gang..finally, i know that she “甩开我” when she has her own friend. I shall remember this...